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ok, so i recently broke up with my boyfriend. We went out for one week at first because of a rumor about me cheating on him. Then, weeks later we got back together because he found out it was a lie. So we went out for three weeks. during those three week people was lieing about me to break us up be zak (the boyfriend) didn't believe them. Then this dude James (sonicTH111) threatened that if i dont have s*x with him, he would lie to zak say i cheated on him. he would ruin my whole life and eventually i would kill myself. Stupid of me, i didn't listen. two weeks later, he made a fake "conversation" that đã đưa ý kiến that i did have s*x with him. he sent it to some people and it spread everywhere. when it got to zak, he believed it and he broke up with me. he đã đưa ý kiến this time its perminant. it didnt matter how much i told him i didn't do anything, he wouldn't believe me; he would just say "right" hoặc "sure" it broke my tim, trái tim because i was commited for a crime i didn't do. So today, (if i haven't already say this, we broke up yesturday [2/24/11]) we got back into another fight about the rumor. I was almost there getting him to see the proof that i was innocent, when his Gemerman ex girlfriend gonna barge in and ask for another chance. and i dont understand why he got back together because he broke his tim, trái tim BAD. she feel in tình yêu with another guy while they were dating (the first time) then SHE broke up with HIM and then she had s*x with james. so im so confused. PLUS she talked trash about him. she đã đưa ý kiến he was "stupid" and "dumb" and "oh i should have never gone out with him because i didnt realize how stupid he was"

So now im on the ege of killing myself, becuz i have have 7 ex boyfriends and have had like 10 broken hearts. so now i dont know what to do anymore. I loved zak (and still do) with all my everything, and he got taken away from me bởi a perv and a whore. so now i dont know what to do anymore. so i need some advice!

~sorry the explanation is so long, i hope u too
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*I hope bạn took the time to read it, sorry for typos and the bf's user is zakbeck.
Ambrella_Hedgie posted hơn một năm qua
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I read the whole thing and if bạn need help, then talk to someone. bạn can make it through tough times like this!
animegrl52p posted hơn một năm qua
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i undersand ive never had a bf before but alot of my Những người bạn hav. guys can be such dooshe bags. just keep ur head up and carry on :) ull find somebody better than him
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-sapherequeen- said:
Alright. Whenever I hear a girl say something like, "I tình yêu him so much! I can't live without him!" hoặc "I will kill myself since he's out of my life!", it makes me want to smash my head against a brick tường over and over. And if not that, take her head and smash it over and over.

Why?
Two reasons;

1) It's simply the biggest crock of bullshit I'll ever out of a teenage girl's mouth.

2) I've been through that too. And to this day, it's an ugly story for me.

To summarize briefly; I met this boy, Andrew (temporary name) at a ngày Camp during the summer when I was nine-years-old (Yes, nine). Andrew was a great kid to me, we did a lot of fun things together and (I'm assuming) enjoyed each other's company. Andrew was a pretty funny guy to me, and was almost always fun to be around. :)
Eventually, a năm later when we were at summer camp again, I grew a deep crush on him. But I never told him out of fear of how he'd react (Maturity was not really his best aspect, yet he was, like most of us, just a child back then).
Well, our friendship lasted until fifth grade. To briefly summarize that mess; Rumor spread about Andrew, Andrew was upset, a friend of his blamed me, Andrew believed him (I'm assuming it was a guy I know of), Andrew had a guidance counselor talk to me & confronted me a few times, I told the truth and đã đưa ý kiến it wasn't me, he didn't believe me. And we stopped being Những người bạn after the fifth grade. Then there was summer camp. And this is one of the reasons why I don't give my tim, trái tim to people easily;
According to others, he đã đưa ý kiến the following; I'm ugly, I'm weird, I'm really rude, I have staring problems, I got him into detention, he hated me etc. And he and another girlfriend of his made fun of my lazy eye all summer according to a friend of mine. A guy I had a crush on at that very time was saying and doing all of this.
Pleasant, I know :)

But, one of the dumbest things I'll ever think of doing was this; Committing suicide. All because of Andrew. -_-

Mainly because,
Why end your life over a dumb boy?
No, why give up the life you've never even lived yet over a dumb boy?
Obviously, if he's walking away from you, whatever he đã đưa ý kiến about being a true friend hoặc boyfriend to bạn was false. To me, a boyfriend will treat bạn like that because of a stupid rumor and then go to another girl didn't care that much about bạn to begin with, if not at all.
What is there to sacrifice your life for?

My advice?
Don't give up living, because it's not worth it. I learned that about Andrew, myself, and my life later on, and I'm always feeling fortunate at some extent that I did.
I have so many pretty cool people (although I don't really see them), and so many opportunities to gain a pretty damn good future for myself. :)

And guess what?
bạn do too. :)

bạn have to di chuyển on if bạn must. It may feel like hoặc possibly even be the hardest thing bạn can go through. But eventually, it's the right thing to do.

Because in the end, life re
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nice xD
missspooky posted hơn một năm qua
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*sighs* Never mind my answer, fanpop cut a good portion of it off. Shows bạn how good people listen to moral lessons within one's past. -_-
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Thanks :)
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Mallory101 said:
Alright. Listen.
I've recently been heartbroken too, I know how bạn feel...but it's a boy. A Boy. B-o-y. Boy.
Boy.(n) Living being who screws around with girl's hearts because they know we don't want to lose them. Also, a living being which bạn should not kill yourself over.

7 exes? You.Have.No.Idea. A boy is a stupid reason to be on the urge of suicide. Plus, I really doubt bạn could go through with it.
Wanna talk it out? Message me.
Just remember to breathe.
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Yeah, Mallory101 says it perfectly. :) *BEST*
-sapherequeen- posted hơn một năm qua
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Thank you(:
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teamalecdemetri said:
dont kill ur self over a guy. i know u tình yêu him, but just dont...... think about ur Những người bạn and family..... how would they fell if u killed ur self. its okay. if u want to talk to me...... im all ears..... dont worry.... time will heal all of ur wounds. again u can talk to me:)
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animegrl52p said:
All i have to say is báo cáo the guy who made u break up (James). If u want, ill also báo cáo him 2, okay. If he messes with one girl, its like he messes with all of us! bạn can talk to any girl and tell them whats wrong and they will help bạn through it.
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Wolfdreamer9 said:
1) Well your thông tin các nhân says your 13...so that's a little young to be having sex...
2) 7 ex boyfriends...how long do your relationships normally last?? -_-
3) Don't kill yourself over a guy...
4) Take a break from guys for a while... relax women...lol

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lolz how do she have 7 evil ex...i mean boyfriends?
missspooky posted hơn một năm qua
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*sigh* I fixed it....
Wolfdreamer9 posted hơn một năm qua
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lolz lolz lolz seven exes
siory posted hơn một năm qua
siory said:
he's not the only cá in the sea try and get over him cause he doesn't tình yêu bạn if he did he'd believe you
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YA I AGREE WITH U.
teamalecdemetri posted hơn một năm qua
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oohh i like those
siory posted hơn một năm qua
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yeah its to dark
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saso_dei_hi said:
psh!please! instead of mourning,you SHOULD be kinda mad.After all,a GOOD bf would NEVER believe sum like that and if you're so extremely upset he should be able to see it.i say 4gt him, you've got enuf on your hands.Worry about school,you know...the place that actually helps bạn in the future...besides,I'm sure a cool kid,you find some1 soon enuf un
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shyboy77 said:
please don't hurt your self it's not worth it trust me bạn are better and smarter then the people who did that to bạn don't let theme get to bạn and just don't hurt your self if bạn need help heres an spot on this site it can help bạn maybe some one can help bạn here link
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LunaShay said:
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Sorry,I don't help out with the lovey dovey stuff..

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i really miss the old you....
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demonthief said:
U serious u gonna kill ur self over a stupid boy? dude, u havent even started ur life yet and u plan 2 end it? NO! Im sorry that bạn hzve been threw all that crap but still... NO COMMITING SUICIDE!!!!!!
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16falloutboy said:
It's a boy, just get over it, it's not like one of your family members died hoặc somethin
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KrazyVampy18 said:
Don't kill yourself, please don't.
OKkthis guy bạn really are in tình yêu with right? Well this James dude sounds like an Asshole. A serious straight up a-hole. And tell Zak that bạn ARE telling the truth and demand for James to tell Zak the truth. If bạn really are in tình yêu with Zak and bạn are made to be then things will turn out alright in the end hoặc maybe there is supposed to be another guy your supposed to end up with, who knows? But for now all bạn have to do is keep living. Don't let it steal your joy. And no matter how bad life gets just remember, in the end, things will be alright.
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goodman8 said:
Omg that is veary badd how could James do that I hope bạn happy again Zak migt know your telling the trufe soon an bạn get back togater maybe bạn havea not fond your sole mate yeta bạn will don't kill your self he is not wort that
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rapunzeleah123 said:
*facepalm*

Okay, while I do have some sympathy for you, that's a stupid reason to kill yourself. He's a frickin 13, 14 năm old BOY. bạn have a ton of life left.
He's obviously not worth the trouble. LET HIM GO, bạn moron.
Sorry for calling bạn a moron. Seriously, you're, what, 13?
Ugh, I guess I have anger issues. Seriously, though, I mean what I say.
7 boyfriends at 13? Wow.
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