well if it was the first time then i would wait for him to fess up and if he begs for me bck then i give him another chance but the tiếp theo time bạn better be prayin to a God..anywho..i can always give em a handful of sugar...
I would have to take into account everything. How long I'd been with him, why he cheated, if I'd done anything wrong in the relationship, how guilty and sorry he was, if he wanted me back. It's difficult, because people say they'd do one thing but when it comes to it they feel differently.
I guess it depends on the situation, and whether you're in love, and whether it was a one night thing, hoặc whether it had been going on constantly.
If it had been going on constantly I don't see how I could ever forgive him, but I guess bạn don't know till you're there.
Though I know one thing, cheating isn't right. And if bạn forgive someone for something like that, then bạn obviously adore them despite their cracks. And if you've forgiven them from the bottom of your heart, bạn must be in love.
First I would be calm about it. Then I would say "You don't deserve this. bạn could be better. I thought bạn were better. Guess bạn were a jerk from the start." Then I would just walk away. No violence no nothing.