I'm not sure if anyone will think this to be worthy of being a Soapbox Article, but it is something that I wanted to share.
It's a short poem that I wrote a long time ago, which has words that I was only guessing about at the time.
I've discovered them to be very true for maintaining a good relationship, but it needs to be followed bởi both people.
Anyways, one ngày we were được trao the task of nghề viết văn a four line poem in one of my English classes in high school. It had to be something meaningful, but we could pick the subject.
It doesn't have a title, but here it is:
Design with thy heart
And learn to share
For tình yêu is an art
Which needs much care
It's important for both people to pay attention to the needs of the other, and to make sure that both of bạn share. Whether it be talking, hugging, dealing with problems, etc., bạn should both be there for each other.
If bạn don't like something, talk about it. It's better to have compromises, then to have either of bạn try to change each other into someone bạn are not.
If bạn try to force a change, bạn might not be happy with it, and the person bạn tried to change might look elsewhere because of it.
Try to take things one ngày at a time, and don't forget about compassion. Try to put yourself in your partner's shoes when bạn talk to each other. Listen to what they are saying, and if bạn don't completely understand something, ask... just don't phrase it in a way that may sound judgemental, hoặc bạn may get shut out. Let them know that bạn care and want to understand.
tình yêu can be a two-way street, and bạn should be trying to travel in the same vehicle... not in ones headed toward each other in a collision.
It's a short poem that I wrote a long time ago, which has words that I was only guessing about at the time.
I've discovered them to be very true for maintaining a good relationship, but it needs to be followed bởi both people.
Anyways, one ngày we were được trao the task of nghề viết văn a four line poem in one of my English classes in high school. It had to be something meaningful, but we could pick the subject.
It doesn't have a title, but here it is:
Design with thy heart
And learn to share
For tình yêu is an art
Which needs much care
It's important for both people to pay attention to the needs of the other, and to make sure that both of bạn share. Whether it be talking, hugging, dealing with problems, etc., bạn should both be there for each other.
If bạn don't like something, talk about it. It's better to have compromises, then to have either of bạn try to change each other into someone bạn are not.
If bạn try to force a change, bạn might not be happy with it, and the person bạn tried to change might look elsewhere because of it.
Try to take things one ngày at a time, and don't forget about compassion. Try to put yourself in your partner's shoes when bạn talk to each other. Listen to what they are saying, and if bạn don't completely understand something, ask... just don't phrase it in a way that may sound judgemental, hoặc bạn may get shut out. Let them know that bạn care and want to understand.
tình yêu can be a two-way street, and bạn should be trying to travel in the same vehicle... not in ones headed toward each other in a collision.