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LifeAsC said:
I'm actually in the same situation, and it really hurts, I get it. My crush is annoyed bởi me too, and the biggest mistake bạn could make is pushing those bounderies. The Lời khuyên "there are other cá in the sea" irritates me - because how can a person like bạn if the both of bạn haven't even gotten to know each other? So, here's my whole hearted advice:
Give him space. Let him know that bạn are your own person and that he isn't a huge significance involved in your life. Don't bother to let him drag bạn down, that'll just cause him to be even thêm annoyed, and bạn to be even thêm obsessed with the idea of the two of bạn together. However, whenever he sees you, make eye contact. Short but not too short, keep the contact for about 2-3 giây and look away with a small smile (that's pretty much a được trao though). He'll know that you're interested, but just don't harass him with it. If being "annoying" is a trait of yours, embrace it. It's a flaw that many people have and struggle with, but if your crush actually gets to know you, and sees your good qualities, he may start to actually like you...and bởi that time he'll accept bạn for who bạn are. But if he finally gets to know you, and still doesn't like bạn for who bạn are, he's not worth anymore of your time. (That's and IF though)
General advice: just get to know him, let a bit of time pass to clear the tension between the two of you. However, keep sending signals that you're still interested, for example eye contact. (Also, think before bạn act upon your words when bạn speak to him.)
I really hope it works out, but if not, just remember that the situation is what bạn make of it. di chuyển on, improve yourself and live to your potential as a valued human being. Don't let one "crush" hurt you, turn it into a lesson and know that one ngày there will be someone willing to tình yêu you, flaws and all.
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