4*01 When Damon Says "the 1st time we met is not all bạn remeber" what is he talking about ? Elena's feeling for him ? hoặc something else he made her forget ??

Damon's talking about the scene at the end of Rose (2x08), Where he confessed he loved her and then compelled her to forget it. If I recall correctly he said, "It's because I tình yêu bạn that I can't be selfish with you." So in 4x01 "I am that selfish. the first time we met's not all that bạn remember." is a remark to that memory.
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Damon speaks about his first tình yêu confession. But he at the same time indicates that he is not selfish, especially when it comes to Elena ("Because I am that selfish, but bạn knew that already, the first night we met is not the only thing bạn remember."). Check out the bài viết "The Truth About Love: Why Elena's Logic in 4x01 Doesn't Make Sense", where it is explained why Damon's choice to save Elena is not selfish, because he is willing to chịu, gấu her hating him as long as she is an toàn, két an toàn and alive.

the "i tình yêu you"

Damon is referring to the scene in 2X08 ("Rose"), in which Damon tells Elena that he loves her and then compels her to forget. It is totally and 100% heart-breaking. The first episode of season 4 depicts Elena remembering that specific memory.