I'm confused about delena haters

If bạn are fairly new to the fandom and have never read the sách then it's possible that bạn will never have heard of Bamon (Bonnie and Damon). Bamon does exist, but it depends on where bạn look. As for any 'DE hate', again, it depends on where bạn look. Unfortunately, it has happened on our spot bởi people who have kind of stirred up trouble bởi posting comments/arguments which have just rubbed DE shippers up the wrong way. I'm sorry if some of the những người hâm mộ here come across as defensive. Most of us want to avoid shipper wars, but often, any slanging matches that have happened have been caused bởi negative các bình luận from non-DE những người hâm mộ hoặc multi shippers. We just really, really tình yêu DE, and in spite of having the biggest numbers of fans, we feel like the underdog a lot of the time. Why? Well, because SE are always in tình yêu and together, and a lot of the book những người hâm mộ are hurt and betrayed bởi spoilers from LJ Smith's soon to be released 'Midnight'. But DE haters do exist out there. I think you're lucky to have only encountered DE love!

I am not a Delena hater, I'm not, I tình yêu Damon and Elena together. I just hate the argument that "delena is going to happen eventually". I am sorry but that is just a crappy argument. I agree with Delena những người đang yêu who say 'in this and this episode bạn can see that Elena does care for Damon etc etc and therefore we think that Delena will happen". THAT I can buy, but not some kind of destiny argument, cause I think that just sucks, it's not even a real argument.
Another thing is that some Delena những người đang yêu like epicdelena4ever automatically say that non Delena những người đang yêu are pathetic, that does not exactly make me tình yêu Delena more, thêm the opposite effect.

people hate demean because they have gotten attached to stefan and elana being together. I think this is reasonable because demean sucks