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learnig to live without tình yêu

lately i been finding myself lonely romantically, but unlike in other occasions i don't want to find anybody. there are ppl of the opposite sex i like but i know they don't want a serious relationship with me and i am ok with that. but, there is this guy that i don't find attractive who keeps calling me to go out with him and that makes me really uncomfortable. i also find myself thêm attracted to the same sex, but not enough to act on it. so i don't know if that makes me bi, gay hoặc asexual hoặc maybe this feelings will pass.
 londonsrock posted hơn một năm qua
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chickencheese said:
I think bạn should tell the guy who keeps calling bạn that bạn don't want to go out with him, and he needs to stop. If he can see that bạn really don't want to go out with him he will get bored and give up. hoặc if he doesn't tell someone bạn trust who can talk to him.

I'm not sure about whether bạn are gay hoặc not, but if bạn decide bạn are then there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. It's your choice.

Hope that was helpful (I'm useless at this sort of question)
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That is brill advise!
heartmerlin2 posted hơn một năm qua
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thanks!
chickencheese posted hơn một năm qua
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Thank you, for the advice. I always have trouble rejecting suitors b/c I don't wana be maen but I guess I just have to be really direct.
londonsrock posted hơn một năm qua
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yeah if bạn say it nicely hopefully he won' be offended
chickencheese posted hơn một năm qua
heartmerlin2 said:
Just to add onto what chickencheese has said...
It really is perfectly fine, and normal to not want a relationship and still be romantic.

And for bạn not knowing if your bi, gay hoặc asexual, I have read in many mags that at teanage age, (expesh the start) your emotions get confused and bạn can feel that your attracted to someone your actually not.

Best of luck.x
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Thanks, I really don't know why I feel like that till now b/c I am 21 but i hope this will pass.
londonsrock posted hơn một năm qua
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I'm sure it will, just give it some time. ;) Good luck!
heartmerlin2 posted hơn một năm qua
MephilesTheDark said:
If the case is that you've just broken up with someone, trust me when I say that however broken apart bạn may feel, the time will come when bạn find someone who can heal the open scar the former has left within you.

Life isn't a race, all bạn have to do is come out on the other side unharmed.

Don't put yourself into the feeling that bạn 'need' someone, because this is not always the case. bạn just have to wait and find someone bạn truely have feelings for, whether it be the same sex hoặc not.

As for the one who keeps calling you, I suggest bạn let him know that bạn don't share the same feelings about him. Remember also that, however unfortunatly, some guy's just want to get bạn into bed.

Your sexuality is but another aspect of this issue. If bạn are attracted thêm so to the same sex, let it be and don't try to suppress it.

I wish bạn but the best of luck. =)


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Thank you, I haven't been in a long term relationship for about 3 years. I think the pressure comes from the fact that all my Những người bạn are paired up. But is like bạn đã đưa ý kiến I think I don't need to be with anyone until I c my Những người bạn with their partners.
londonsrock posted hơn một năm qua
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Couldn't agree more!
heartmerlin2 posted hơn một năm qua
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